Mother

 Only when you sort out the courage to be truthful to yourself 

will your children learn to find themselves and dare to be who they are. 

Only when you exhibit excitement for new journeys and untold adventures

 will your children learn to explore and discover with a free spirit. 

Only when you finally find the way to feel content and satisfied about your own existence 

will your children learn to live peacefully, peacefully with themselves, and with their world. 

 Happy Mother's Day to all the daring and dashing mothers 

who make this world a little more colorful and a little more exciting. 💖

Fuck You All (Well, Literally Too, LoL)

Ya this world is filled with filth and disgusting notions like this. 

I spend my whole day and night cleaning, cooking, arranging clothes, buying groceries, Ubering for my kids' classes, tending to my screaming kids, so my talent is washed away little by little and my dreams of being someone who achieved something because of her talent is slipping away little by little. 

Not only we are slaves whose hard work is regarded as worthless, our wings are cut too, so we can never fly. 

 So to this filthy world I say: mind your own fucking business and fucking let me be. 

None of you are worthy to decide anything for me or my body.

Tujenge Maisha progress

Dear friends,

As some of you know, we have been supporting the women in Narumu, Tanzania for many years, through the non-profit organization Tujenge Maisha (https://www.tujengemaisha.org/). Our ultimate goal is to build a health center in Narumu so pregnant women and new moms with infants have access to basic healthcare and prenatal and postpartum care. Currently, they have zero healthcare for the population of 12k people in Narumu.

In 2022 December, we raised some funds so the women in Narumu purchased a second-hand truck (see attachment). With this truck, pregnant women in an emergency can be transferred to the nearest hospital 45 minutes away. The truck has been in frequent use since, and is a big help for women there. 

In 2023 December, Raj and I donated 4000 dollars, together with Dorothy (Tujenge Maisha's founder) who also put in her own 3000 dollars, now a health center building has been built on Dorothy's ancestral land. The construction lasted from December 2023 to April 2024, it has 4 rooms, 1 restroom, and solar panels for generating electricity (see attachments).   

Now we are asking for your help so we can put the health center to use. We need 5000 dollars to purchase a laptop, desks, chairs, beds etc, as well as hire staff who could deal with taxes, accounts, and paperwork, so Tujenge Maisha can acquire its non-profit status in Tanzania. The funds will be wired to Tujenge Maisha's official account in Narumu which is held by a group of women there collectively. 

If you are willing to help, you can transfer (Wire Money) directly to Tujenge Maisha's official bank account in America, the donation is tax deductible: 

Tujenge Maisha Inc

1096 Cape May Drive, Pittsburg CA 94565

Routing no.: 321171621 (Cooperative Center Federal Credit Union)

Account no.: 00002071164049 

Your help is life-saving and impactful, it will provide basic healthcare, as well as crucial prenatal and postpartum care to thousands of women and children there in Narumu, making their lives significantly better. 

Many thanks!