How do we do it?

This time around, we’ve finally come prepared—certain about how we move forward.

​It took many relationships and stories to get here, but whatever happened, happened for a reason.

​Now Raj and I have successfully mapped out our boundaries and set up the foundation for how we play:

1. ​Unbreakable Team: 

Raj and I are forever a team—the strongest you’ll find within a 20-mile radius. We have zero plans to break up or go our separate ways as a couple. We are always communicating, exchanging thoughts, ideas, and opinions, and we will never stop exploring together.

​2. Poly or Not Poly? 

It depends on how you view it. Raj and I are both open to me having romantic lovers who are also my sexual partners and friends. Our lives won't be overly intertwined simply due to the limited time I have managing a crazy big family. 

But if I meet with each lover every week or two, over time, they could become part of our big constellation family. Call it poly, or don’t—it’s up to you.

3. ​The Three Requirements to Be My Lover:

​a. A strong romantic relationship with me.

b. ​A strong friendship, partnership, or even romantic/sexual connection with Raj.

​c. A mature, trustworthy mindset that prioritizes health and avoids anything potentially harmful.

​And I'll take my sweet time trying things out with people and slowly getting to know each of them. One guy at a time, though—I'll give it a few months with someone, then decide if I want to keep seeing him or call it off.

​Voilà, this is the plan, and I'm already on guy no. 1, hihi! The sex was brief the other day, but it was soooooo good, and now we're onto our second date. We two actually have great chemistry, I have to admit. We actually all met together with Raj at the end of June, and he waited for me to come back from my India-China trip so we could go out. If things go smoothly, I'll have updates—and maybe photos, too—to share soon. 😊