Wednesday, June 5, 2013

India's prostitution/sex slave industry

India has more sex slaves than any other country in the world. India's caste system is divided into many subcastes, many of which are tied to a particular job, including prostitution. These women are fated to be prostitues. A girl born to a woman who comes from that part of society where prostitution is traditionally-accepted way of life, she doesn't know how to think anything else, she just accepts it as part of her fate. A lot of things go on in the name of tradition.

The caste system is totally a watertight compartment, you are just born into it, you can't make any movement, generation after generation, all the women in that subcaste become prostitues, and nobody thinks that it's anything unusual or horrendous, or it has to be stopped and challenged. The Indian society has always chosen to look away, nobody wants to see it, nobody wants to do anything about it...

One of the global paradoxes is that countries with the most conservative sexual mores tend to have the most prostitution, these are also countries where women have very little value...

Indian brothels are among the most brutal in the world, one of the things that Indian brothels periodically do that brothels in the other parts of the world don't is they will kill girls there who are uncooperative. As long as the victims are poor, rural, female, illiterate village kids, they are disposable, they don't matter in the system, they don't have a voice.

According to the Central Bureau of Investigation's statistics in India, about 3 million women are trapped in prostitution, of this 1.2 million are children. The average age of entering into prostitution is 9 to 13 years old, and the National Human Right Commission in India is saying that the ages are coming down.

In India trans-generational prostitution is very normal, women prostitues often force their 14-year-old daughters into taking clients because women who are in prostitution have very little ability to make their daughters aspire to be something different, and it's not that the trans-generational prostitution happen because they want to make it happen, but because they have no option, they have no escape...

-- From "Half the Sky" documentary

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Amazing Safari Adventure at a wildlife ranch in Texas

It was truly amazing... We watched also feed bunch of animals including Aoudad, Gemsbok, Springbok, Barasingha (from India), Addax, Emu, Ostrich and Llama...

It was our first time experience to see most of the animals. After being so close to many gentle and tender wildlife, we felt very very happy for several days. Even now, whenever I watch the video, I would have a smile on my lips.

Animals share this planet with us, they are our friends, it's our duty to protect them.

 

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Battlestar Galactica

Finished watching "Battlestar Galactica", it is truly the best sci-fi series I have ever known. Maybe the whole story is just a one night dream of Gaius, or it's all coming from his imagination, in search of answers to human race's never ending questions: Who are we? Where did we come from? and Where do we go? Are we humans really "deeply flawed" as greedy, selfish and faithless creatures who always turn into self-destruction?

I don't know the answers. But I know when I saw the blue planet Earth coming from distance, I was out of breath. This is our home, we should learn to appreciate her and protect her, even it's against our human's ugly nature.

Friday, February 8, 2013

Lana Del Rey - Ride

I love this girl... 


This song makes me think about my two years in Europe
not equally crazy
but, I've been there

My time in France and around, has shaped me
in a way it was even beyond that

it was a rescue
from endless nightmares
waking up in the terror of getting lost
Where am I?
What am I running away from?
Why the dreams reveal more truth?

What is the truth?

Something was wrong
I'd always sensed it

Even I took the hard way
even I went a little too far
I had found some answer
 to my never ending questions
there the place far away from home
there the place closer than home
there the place I belong

Monday, February 4, 2013

With or without you

What you are singing about, maybe I understand maybe I don't 


With or Without You 
by U2

Monday, December 17, 2012

Discovery of India

I am so charmed by the desi girls I've met for the past 10 days (including Maa :D ). All of them are confident, strong, independent (financially or emotionally) and warm-hearted, living a shiny life that I am looking up to.

Only because of them, I can fall in love with India with no doubts and hesitation, only because of them.

Thank you Raj for introducing them to my life.

Sunday, November 25, 2012

令我恐惧惊慌的《Life of Pi》

昨晚去看了《Life of Pi》,同去的朋友显然都没懂,把影片当成冒险片来欣赏,试图和Raj讨论,他也回答不上我的问题。从来没有一部电影我看不懂,这是第一部。找了原著的介绍看,发现电影与原著的深度不相上下,连夜看了一些影评和书评,可我还是无法将所有的环节串联起来,无法明白那些细节。

如果不是因为感恩节滑雪之行的疲劳,也许会失眠更久。我独自在黑暗中打着寒颤,闭不上眼睛,恐惧于我从电影里看到的人性阴暗面,恐惧于为什么我选择相信的是人的而不是动物的故事,这就像是对我的惩罚,我害怕自己已被遗弃。为什么他们说,这本书(电影)是神灵存在的最好证据?为什么?我真的不明白。

小的时候身体不好,外婆为我认了七仙娘娘做干妈妈,每年七仙娘娘的生日,外婆会带着家里的孩子一起去庙上,在那里吃上一餐素食。忽然有一年,班干部的我怕这个迷信而耻辱的行为被同学揭发,拒绝和外婆同去,得到父母的大力支持,后来就再没怎么去过。

外公过世的时候,我常常半夜哭醒,我不知道他去了哪里,现在依然不知道。死亡于我,是未知和恐惧。

我不是偏理性的人,并没有因为宗教的不合理性而自主地选择无神或不可知论。

Raj说这部电影应该是鼓励人坚持于信仰,看过之后应该心里平和。可是对于我而言,为什么反而被拽向深渊?

信仰是什么?

我要再看这部电影,也许会有时间细读原著,总有一天我会找到答案。