Showing posts with label 辛格莫默. Show all posts
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Monday, November 7, 2022

中印恋人-辛格莫默:继续用中文讲印度的故事

大家好,我是“中印恋人-辛格莫默”。2009-2021年曾在新浪博客、微博、微信等国内平台以“嫁印度的中国女孩”身份介绍印度人文历史等种种。2021年被全网封杀,并遭受剧烈网暴(我称此经历为“WG2.0”)。如今已走出恐怖阴霾,重新定义自我,并500%满血,愿与中文圈朋友继续探讨印度之奥秘。 

印度在中文圈里一直非常冷门。无论是对印度这个国家,还是对印度人或者印度裔,大多华人都有一种骨子里的说不清一二的鄙夷不屑。因为印度国穷?因为印度人黑皮肤?因为长期受负面印度新闻的轰炸? 

能够生成客观的评价,最核心的前提是对事实或真理的认知。可惜以我十几年在网络上作为“印度窗口”的经历,我认为在中文圈可汲取的与印度相关的事实或真理少之又少,相对客观的分析与评论更是寥寥无几。

我理解为什么民间倾向于把目光聚焦于经济发达的欧美,也理解为什么知识圈倾向于探寻以欧洲文化为中心的社会进程的推演。

但是 -- 

1. 印度半岛各处富饶、历史悠久、多民族多文化,自古就是七大洲五大洋各族外来人口的移民终点站,被称为“世界人种博物馆”,“世界人种大杂烩”;

2. “印度教”是全世界范围内尚存至今的最古老的宗教。与其说是“宗教”,不如说是一种精神层面的思考与存在方式,一种生活方式。在这种生活方式下,鼓励个人寻求其独立的对精神世界的追求;

3. 正是因为“印度教”只是一种生活方式,而不是一个特定的固化的信仰体系,所以在印度半岛,追求精神升华的独立个体自古就被赋予了极大的自由。印度人想信什么就信什么,想怎么信就怎么信。每个人的冥想和瑜珈是他/她在自我世界里的舞蹈,与他/她自己想象的神灵对话。几千年下来印度民间创造了无数的女神、男神、动物神和圣贤人,你把一块石头、一颗树当成自己一生最大的信仰也无妨。多民族多人种多信仰,纷繁交错、共存共生,所以印度文化的至深精髓是多样性与包容性,可谓是全球难得的精神自由之圣土;

4. 中印同是东方文化古国,可比性强。中印自古交流甚多,中国受印度文化极大影响,佛教源自印度等等。

华人应该去了解印度吗?当然应该!了解印度,有助于了解华人自身的历史,上下沉浮几千年,多多少少有一大部分和印度缠绕着;了解印度文化DNA里的多样性和包容性,有助于反观自身文化里的多样性和包容性,无论是去探究中华大地原生文化的多样性,还是去研习后来受到印度文化影响的进程前后;从根子里了解自身文化的多样性有助于不迷失在各式以欧洲文化为中心的社会推演论里,并能够想像出适合东方文明尤其是中华文明的社会推演蓝图。

所以我决定回来,继续用中文写作,分享自己的学习和思考。人生本就是一个神秘的探索之旅,遇见印度是命运使然,但对真理真知的追求,对陌生世界的探求,需要勇气与不灭的热情。共勉。

分享几张今年家里庆祝杜迦女神节、财富女神节以及排灯节时的照片

在自己家里向财富女神 Lakshmi 祈福,这是排灯节那天的习俗

东南西北印度人庆祝的节日纷繁复杂、不尽相同,排灯节可谓是大部分印度家庭都有庆祝的“印度之节”。这是我们家里周末举办的排灯节聚会

周末排灯节聚会上,大家一起向财富女神 Lakshmi 祈福

周末排灯节聚会上女人们的合影。其中几位是嫁给印度男人的外国女人

杜迦女神节是孟加拉文化下最重要的节日,十几天时间向代表着权力和力量的杜迦女神祈福。我的印度老公虽不是孟加拉人,但家里有孟加拉文化,比如奶奶是孟加拉人,姑妈、表哥是孟加拉人,所以我印度婆家最重要的节日也是杜迦女神节。这是我们与孟加拉好友一家一起参加湾区的庆祝活动

孩子们的背后是杜迦女神庆祝活动上的杜迦女神以及其他几位女神和象神的神像

这是和小妹妹小妹夫一起参加的另外一个杜迦女神节的庆典活动,背后是杜迦女神以及其他女神和象神的神像

这是另外一个杜迦女神节庆典时期我们参加的舞会,由古吉拉特人举办,遵循的是古吉拉特人庆祝杜迦女神节的传统 - 跳嘎巴舞

孩子们参加古吉拉特邦特色嘎巴舞会的样子

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Monday, September 19, 2022

對抗

This's how you do things. Keep fighting against online bullying 🤘當然要反抗 當然要對抗 任何權利與自由都是努力爭取來的。不反抗不對抗 自由表達不被網暴的空間就會被打壓被搶奪。不止網絡空間 生活上更如此。不為自己爭取正當權益 總有一天會一無所有 

#網絡暴力 #辛格莫默 #中印戀人 #嫁印度 #鄭墨沫 #嫁給印度人 #印度老公 






Tuesday, July 19, 2022

#中印戀人 #辛格莫默 #發表的書 2022 Published Books #MomoSingh #郑墨沫 #我的印度情 #MyWay

 《我的印度情: 中印戀人_辛格莫默講述印度的故事》 ebook 

此書詳細描述了諸多自己在印度的經歷與印度家人的故事。從中印戀人的視角,以最直露的手筆,帶大家走進毫無隱藏和修飾的真實印度。【鄭墨沫,中文網名“中印戀人“,是一位嫁給印度人的中國女人,與她的印度先生和一兒一女兩個中印混血寶寶居住在美國加州灣區。她幾乎每年都去印度探親旅遊,並用文字記錄下所見所聞。】

https://www.amazon.com/%E6%88%91%E7%9A%84%E5%8D%B0%E5%BA%A6%E6%83%85-%E4%B8%AD%E5%8D%B0%E6%88%80%E4%BA%BA_%E8%BE%9B%E6%A0%BC%E8%8E%AB%E9%BB%98%E8%AC%9B%E8%BF%B0%E5%8D%B0%E5%BA%A6%E7%9A%84%E6%95%85%E4%BA%8B-Traditional-Chinese-%E5%A2%A8%E6%B2%AB-ebook/dp/B0B622JJGB/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1TYV1UAWV5UXQ&keywords=%E6%88%91%E7%9A%84%E5%8D%B0%E5%BA%A6%E6%83%85&qid=1658240985&sprefix=%2Caps%2C516&sr=8-1


"My Way: Collection of Poems 2020-2022"  ebook / paperback

Most of my poems from this collection have been written in the style of self-reflection and conciliation in the aftermath of persecution. It signifies my mentality during the time when I was fundamentally rattled but stood firmer and taller, when I was brutally shattered but regained my confidence and aspiration, as a woman.

https://www.amazon.com/My-Way-Collection-Poems-2020-2022-ebook/dp/B0B5X16FXV/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2P41ETVDK7C6U&keywords=my+way+momo+singh&qid=1658241203&sprefix=my+way+momo+singh%2Caps%2C154&sr=8-1



Saturday, January 1, 2022

Believe In Your S.E.L.F.

Looking back, from the time I started recording my thoughts, views and daily lives into videos, I've grown so much. 

Actually from day one that was 12+ years ago when I started sharing my journey with my Indian husband online, I've transformed head to toe. 

In fact from the time when I first had internet and started blogging and writing, no matter what language, I've walked so far. 


Over the years, I'd been beaten to bruises, I'd been broken to pieces, I'd been burned to ashes. 

But at the end of the day, I've always found my strength somehow, somewhere, and kept walking my own path, headstrongly. 


If you ask me what's the most important thing I've learned in my journey. 

I would proudly tell you: no matter how they hurt you, demean you, dismiss you, even they're your most beloved. 

Just believe in what you think is right and keep walking. 

Because that confidence inside of you, nothing is shinier and more glamorous than that, in the whole universe!






Tuesday, September 28, 2021

[Twitter June-Sep] Internet Violence #ExtremeNationalism #Propaganda #HateEducation #Brainwash #Antifeminism #網絡暴力 #中國網絡 #洗腦 #反女權


Why nailed me as a piece of countering-free-world propaganda and brainwashing material? 

1. "She is a woman, women's behavior should be within a certain frame and limit. The worst scenario is that our good Chinese women running away to be the reproduction tool of evil foreign men. All there is to women is pleasure tool and species continuation"; 

2. "She is educated. Educated women are the worst evil. Not only this phenomenon is affecting our population growth, but it also brings down social morality, affecting the mentality of our other good women in society"; 

3. "She embraces individual freedom which is naturally opposing to collectivism and she even has the audacity to express it, this is the worst evil that could exhibit in an individual. Any tendency of individualism is the enemy of the collective commonwealth of our evergrande nation"; 

4. "We would let you go if you married a white from a once-supreme country, but an Indian? Indian equals black, black is on the bottom of the food chain, nobody going down the chain. Nothing to do with the size though, we're talking about skin colors, skin color is what truly matters, nobody cares about the size."


 
































--Related Blogs: 

*How Famous am I in China? Some Video Platform Search Results https://feimoyu21.blogspot.com/2021/07/how-famous-am-i-in-china-some-video.html 

*Why nailed me as a piece of countering-free-world propaganda and brainwashing material? https://feimoyu21.blogspot.com/2021/09/twitter-june-sep-internet-violence.html 



*[Twitter May-June] Internet Violence - Making a Record as How it is Unfolding https://feimoyu21.blogspot.com/2021/06/twitter-may-june-internet-violence.html 

*The real violence usually are sent via DM https://feimoyu21.blogspot.com/2020/06/dm.html 


*Why I regularly post the violent comments I receive? https://feimoyu21.blogspot.com/2020/06/why-i-regularly-post-violent-comments-i.html 

*A Poem - If I Could Stay, Why I Ever Leave? https://feimoyu21.blogspot.com/2020/10/a-poem.html 

*With You By My Side, My World Lit Up Like A Northern Sky https://feimoyu21.blogspot.com/2021/03/with-you-by-my-side-my-world-lit-up.html 



*Internet Violence in China #Brainwash #Propaganda #ExtremNationalism #Discrimination #Defamation #Persecution #FalseAccusation #PromoteHatred #MinistryofTruth #ThoughtPolice https://feimoyu21.blogspot.com/2021/05/internet-violence-chinese.html

-- Related Youtube Videos: 

*The Incident in February 2021  https://youtu.be/ddrSYPc5A98 

*When They Make Hit Videos About U, U Know U'r Famous!..Hilarious..  https://youtu.be/crfz0CNMJRk 

*😂😂 How Famous am I in China? Some Video Platform Search Results #郑墨沫 #中印恋人 #嫁给印度人 #网络暴力 #抹黑污蔑 https://youtu.be/xTxqcTyb12I

*21世紀中國式的黑白顛倒 指鹿為馬 閉塞無知 公開羞辱 侵犯私權 文革批鬥 My Story in Parallel Universe: Public Shaming and Persecution https://youtu.be/6X-YiGiGaHY

*The Most Violent Languages Usually Sent Via DM(2)https://youtu.be/YrdHZJem6WI

*The Most Violent Languages Usually Sent Via DM(1) https://youtu.be/tf4nJlgt1cI 

*China-India Border Tensions Bring Internet Violence To Chindian Family https://youtu.be/rlng22KPGEs 

*China's Internet Censorship and Violence 【21世紀文字獄】https://youtu.be/EoWGwqscwNo 

*Internet Violence - Glimpse of 12 Years of Violence Against Me in Chinese Internet https://youtu.be/tXRBaqQBux0 

*[Twitter May-June] Internet Violence - Making a Record as How it is Unfolding #辛格莫默 #嫁給印度人 #網絡暴力 https://youtu.be/JF2pxR5c9Xo

*[Twitter June-July] Internet Violence - War is Peace Freedom is Slavery Ignorance is Strength #網絡暴力 https://youtu.be/zD25PJVnacQ

*[Twitter Aug-Sep] Internet Violence #ExtremeNationalism #Propaganda #HateEducation #Brainwash #網絡暴力 https://youtu.be/QHjETyk2PXI

Monday, July 19, 2021

😂😂 How Famous am I in China? Some Video Platform Search Results #郑墨沫 #中印恋人 #嫁给印度人 #网络暴力 #抹黑污蔑

My million-dollar questions:

a. Why the Heck is Nobody Using My BIKINI videos??!!!! 🤨 🤨 🤨

b. If I can sue all of those, how much can I get as compensation??!!! 💰 💰 💰

c. Am I angry at those people who produce the content? No. I see them also as the victims of such a society where hatred and fake news are the mainstream, where individual rights are at all times being violated. They are violating all of my rights, but truly they are violating their own rights. And if they just joined the wave, using my popularity to make money, maybe for their kids' education or old parents' medical fees, I even feel good because I helped them achieve that. 

No, I have no grudge only sympathy for them.

#PublicShaming #InternetViolence #Defamation #Propaganda


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SP: "This is so sad and scary at the same time! Sorry to hear about this Momo! I am sure it takes a toll on your mental health! 😞 But you should report these just to take a stand against fake news."

My Reply: Thank you S! My dad did go to a lawyer in China, just to ask, the lawyers' office said they can't do anything. There might be a law (or not) relating to this, but nobody is doing it because it's against propaganda and brainwashing. It's kind of political (because it's relating to the image of India, in current China, the image of India should be bad, bad Indian image is politically right, the government is behind it), nobody would do anything if it's anything remotely political. All there should exist in society is persecution and public shaming.

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Videos with 1 million 2 million views are so easy to spot, dozens of them are more than half a million and mind that 

1) These are only social media videos, not thousands of news articles or posts from hundreds of websites... 

2) Search results are only from web browsers but not phone APPs, considering most people actually only using phones to play video, and there are tens of popular video apps out there... 

3) These only are the search result without a registered account, for example, the Tiktok Chinese browser was only showing results of 1 page on the browser. What I heard was I was the most bombastic in the Tiktok Chinese app......